Love . . touchy subject isn't it? I have always been a romantic, dreaming about a fair maiden who would fall absolutely head over heels for me . . .and then we would live in a state of eternal bliss, forever . . didn't i just repeat my self. Anyway, what is love exactly? In my very limited years on this big blue ball i have come to understand three things, Love is a chemical imbalance in the noggin', nobody knows how it develops and how it is to be retarded, guess that's why they associate it with the divine. It is human tendency to always blame it on a higher power, whether its good or bad,decent or obscene, we seem to thrive on this thought 'BLAME'
Which is the second thing I've understood, love is nothing but the intention or rather the want to procure a target for all our blaming activities, blame for wealth, power, time, support, we tend to equate our partners as responsible for all our shortcomings, and why is that? because we believe that all we have done or doing is for our partners, let me remind you, that we do not run in a pack, or a pride or a flock or even a heard. We 'run' in 'Families' the eternal dysfunctional unit. Using the thought i previously talked about, Blame it on God!. Each individual born on this earth is unique, a different animal all together, bind him in a group and u have a very weird bunch.
Imagine a Lion, Goat, Horse and a Dinosaur having to co-habitate! The result would be a bag of bones in a few decades (Duh! The Dino has to die!). Its the same with us humans, except that most of us aren't cannibals. So we adjust, accommodate and please all in the name of Love, which would have worn of anyway?
Yes, Yes ...... we do have cases of the eternal bliss existing, but let me tell you if you go and ask any one member buried desires, you might get a list larger than Milton could think of. Is he content? Yes, is he happy? definitely? but my fellow sapiens had this person decided to give up all for his own reasons or were they related to a person he "Loved"?
Let us introspect and decide whether we really love our near and dear ones or is it just a vicious circle of dependency, emotionally, physically and materially . .
P.S. My first attempt at blogging, ?Hell! at writing.... comments are welcome, be as brutal as possible, i don't believe in love anymore . and i definitely wont blame anyone for my absolute suckiness if any does exist.
Which is the second thing I've understood, love is nothing but the intention or rather the want to procure a target for all our blaming activities, blame for wealth, power, time, support, we tend to equate our partners as responsible for all our shortcomings, and why is that? because we believe that all we have done or doing is for our partners, let me remind you, that we do not run in a pack, or a pride or a flock or even a heard. We 'run' in 'Families' the eternal dysfunctional unit. Using the thought i previously talked about, Blame it on God!. Each individual born on this earth is unique, a different animal all together, bind him in a group and u have a very weird bunch.
Imagine a Lion, Goat, Horse and a Dinosaur having to co-habitate! The result would be a bag of bones in a few decades (Duh! The Dino has to die!). Its the same with us humans, except that most of us aren't cannibals. So we adjust, accommodate and please all in the name of Love, which would have worn of anyway?
Yes, Yes ...... we do have cases of the eternal bliss existing, but let me tell you if you go and ask any one member buried desires, you might get a list larger than Milton could think of. Is he content? Yes, is he happy? definitely? but my fellow sapiens had this person decided to give up all for his own reasons or were they related to a person he "Loved"?
Let us introspect and decide whether we really love our near and dear ones or is it just a vicious circle of dependency, emotionally, physically and materially . .
P.S. My first attempt at blogging, ?Hell! at writing.... comments are welcome, be as brutal as possible, i don't believe in love anymore . and i definitely wont blame anyone for my absolute suckiness if any does exist.
